What is good about having a pet?
Letters to the Prompt
The prompt asked: “What is good about having a pet?”
At 81, a question like this brings me back to childhood memories of Benno, a companion I’ll never forget. I say “companion” instead of “pet” because “pet” feels inadequate to capture the depth of our bond.
My first companion was Benno, a big black Newfoundland dog. He started as a bundle of fur, but he grew into a gentle giant—a striking mix of size, strength, loyalty, and a sweet-natured temperament. Benno was the ultimate friend, confidant, and guardian that any young boy could hope for.
Benno wasn’t just a pet; he was a cherished companion during the formative years of my childhood. It never felt like we owned Benno; rather, he had a certain ownership over us. My mind is flooded with fond memories—of winters when he tried to catch snowflakes, summers when he faithfully followed me down quiet lanes, and endless days chasing after birds. But his favorite pastimes were lying in the cool shade of the garden’s trees or finding solace on the marble floor of our hallway.
I remember Benno’s droopy lips and jowls, which often led to his playful shakes that sent drool flying—much to my mother’s dismay and the maid’s hurried cleaning efforts. But any annoyance was quickly forgotten in the face of his endearing, gentle gaze. When Benno eventually passed away, I watched my father’s quiet tears as he laid him to rest in the garden, where he would remain a poignant reminder of his lasting presence.
This answers, in essence, what is so good about having a pet—or rather, a companion. Benno was a loyal friend through laughter and tears, who brought me closer to the beauty of nature and the need to care for it.
In a way, Benno taught me about life—about birth, death, and the meaning of humanity.
WJJH – 11.11.2024
Musings: Having a pet offers profound companionship, as illustrated by my memories of Benno, a Newfoundland dog. The bond formed transcends ownership, bringing joy, loyalty, and life lessons. Benno’s playful nature, comforting presence, and eventual passing taught me about love, loss, and the importance of caring for others and nature.